Love is a battlefield 

Nicolás A. Nicora

It is so difficult to fall in love in El Bolsón. You can’t have a private life. As it is a small town, everybody knows each others. You might probably find a girl that listens to you, that is a good match, and enjoy spending time with you, but falling in love is something else, it is something different, and so hard so find. It is not because of the way you look, or the way you show yourself, it is because in El Bolsón most teens think about leaving the city in search of a future in the big cities like Buenos Aires, Córdoba and La Plata, where there are more opportunities to studying, opening your mind and finding a soul mate.

The love hasn’t rules, it just happens. But is not always "the same old same": I have a friend who is 18 that lives with her boyfriend; in fact I had a relationship of 8 months with a "unknown" girl from El Bolsón, some teenagers can't deal with feelings , and change their friends for a boyfriend or girlfriend.

It is often said: love is just around the corner. But watching the time pass by, and you may think that your world has no corners, not even streets!

The thing is that everybody needs a time to make up their own mind, a time alone to understand that being in a relationship is not the thing that you necessarily you need to complete yourself.

Just when two people understand their own dreams, their own wishes and needs, they're ready, just then they´re old enough, complete enough, to be in somebody else's life.

 The reason for not finding love yet may be being running according different watches.

This town, as I have already said, is just a stop in many boys and girls' life. And maybe because of that, it is so hard to find full and solid relationships here.

In this small town, a person has to so trough all this hard changes under the eyes of hundreds of people that look at you pry into your secrets, search you when you want to hide, and scream when all you need is silence.

How are we going to fall in love in this scenery?